Here’s Why Engagement Should Be Your Priority

As a developmental therapist, I've seen firsthand how vital engagement is in working with autistic children. Engagement goes beyond simply capturing a child’s attention; it’s about forging a genuine connection that lays the groundwork for social and emotional development.

Engagement occurs when a child feels truly interested in the adult and the interaction happening between them. It’s a dynamic process where both the child and adult invest emotionally, creating a space where meaningful connections thrive. Rather than just getting a child to follow instructions, engagement is about inspiring them to connect, explore, and learn.

This connection is essential because it serves as the foundation for all learning. Children need to feel safe and secure in their relationships before they can fully engage with the world. When a child trusts you as a caregiver, they’re more likely to take risks, ask for help, and try new activities.

One of the most profound benefits of engagement is its positive impact on emotional development. Children learn to understand their feelings through interactions with others, and engaged relationships help them recognize different emotions in themselves and those around them. Through these interactions the child begins to understand their emotions and feelings which leads to the development of self-regulation.

Social learning flourishes in an environment of engagement as well. Through meaningful interactions, children learn the rhythms of communication such as back and forth interacting, taking turns and responding to cues. Through these experiences, they begin to develop social awareness and understanding, which is a key area most autistic children have challenges in. 

As a caregiver or therapist, your role in fostering engagement is crucial. If a child is not engaged with you, they are not learning! Engagement sparks a desire to communicate and socially interact. It is the key to unlocking a child's full potential. For anyone working with autistic children understanding the importance of engagement is essential. 

Many professionals and parents often express difficulty in engaging with autistic children. To effectively connect with these children, it's crucial to understand their individual developmental profiles. This knowledge will enable you to implement the right supports and strategies for optimal engagement. For instance, some children may thrive with a lot of vestibular input and high-energy interactions, while others may require a calmer, less stimulating environment.


Many professionals and parents often express difficulty in engaging with autistic children. To effectively connect with these children, it's crucial to understand their individual developmental profiles. This knowledge will enable you to implement the right supports and strategies for optimal engagement. For instance, some children may thrive with a lot of vestibular input and high-energy interactions, while others may require a calmer, less stimulating environment.

If you are a parent or professional eager to deepen your understanding of engagement and learn how to foster it in autistic children, I invite you to join my 15-week LIVE course. In this comprehensive program, you will discover why engagement should be your top priority and how to tailor your approach for each unique child you work with.

This course is not only invaluable for your professional growth, but it’s also accessible at an affordable price of just $39. Plus, all classes are recorded, ensuring that you can revisit the material at your convenience. Don’t miss this opportunity to enhance your skills and make a meaningful impact in the lives of autistic children!

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